What is Agape Love?


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What is agape love?

Question: "What is agape love?"

The Greek word agape
is often translated "love" in the New Testament. How is "agape love"
different from other types of love? The essence of agape love is
self-sacrifice. Unlike our English word “love,” agape is not used in
the Bible to refer to romantic or sexual love. Nor does it refer to
close friendship or brotherly love, for which the Greek word philia
is used. Nor does agape mean charity, a term which the King James
translators carried over from the Latin. Agape love is unique and is
distinguished by its nature and character.

Agape is love which is of and from God, whose very nature is love itself. The Apostle John affirms this in 1 John 4:8:
“God is love.” God does not merely love; He is love itself. Everything
God does flows from His love. But it is important to remember that
God’s love is not a sappy, sentimental love such as we often hear
portrayed. God loves because that is His nature and the expression of
His being. He loves the unlovable and the unlovely (us!), not because
we deserve to be loved, but because it is His nature to do so, and He
must be true to His nature and character. God’s love is displayed most
clearly at the Cross, where Christ died for the unworthy creatures who
were “dead in trespasses and sins” (Ephesians 2:1),
not because we did anything to deserve it, “but God commends His love
toward us in that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).
The object of agape love never does anything to merit His love. We are
the undeserving recipients upon whom He lavishes that love. His love
was demonstrated when He sent His Son into the world to “seek and save
that which was lost” (Luke 19:10), and to provide eternal life to those He sought and saved. He paid the ultimate sacrifice for those He loves.

In the same way, we are to love others sacrificially. Jesus gave the
parable of the Good Samaritan as an example of sacrifice for the sake
of others, even for those who may care nothing at all for us, or even
hate us, as the Jews did the Samaritans. Sacrificial love is not based
on a feeling, but a determined act of the will, a joyful resolve to put
the welfare of others above our own. But this type of love does not
come naturally to humans. Because of our fallen nature, we are
incapable of producing such a love. If we are to love as God loves,
that love—that agape—can only come from its true Source. This is the
love which “has been poured out in our hearts through the Holy Spirit
given to us” when we became His children (Romans 5:5).
Because that love is now in our hearts, we can obey Jesus who said, “I
give you a new commandment, that you love one another. As I have loved
you, you should also love one another” (John 13:34).
This new commandment involves loving one another as He loved us
sacrificially, even to the point of death. But again, it is clear that
only God can generate within us the kind of self-sacrificing love which
is the proof that we are His children. “By this we have known the love
of God, because He laid down His life for us. And we ought to lay down
our lives for the brothers” (1 John 3:16). Because of God’s love toward us, we are now able to love one another.

Recommended Resource:
The Difficult Doctrine of the Love of God by D.A. Carson.

Related Topics:

Does God love everyone or just Christians?

What does it mean that God is love?

Why does God love us?

What are the attributes of God? What is God like?

What is eros love?

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